Life with young children is busy, exhausting, messy, and at times overwhelming.
I promise I don’t intentionally try to ignore you when you call,
but life with a toddler is pretty chaotic without any dull or quiet moments.
I guess I could answer your call when I am in the middle of my son throwing a tantrum, or when I am cooking, cleaning, picking up food from the floor or off of my son’s face.
But I want to give you my undivided attention and talk to you without any distractions just like before.
I am sure you wouldn’t mind the screaming in the background, or the constant pauses in our conversation for me to yell no,or stopping mid-sentence so I can run and stop my son before he hurts himself trying to grab that one item he knows he can’t have.
But I do mind.
In general, women are great multi-taskers. But when you call before bedtime, I am already doing five things at one time.
Nap time is another great time for you to call.
But with your work schedule, and my toddler’s unpredictable nap time schedule, we are going to have to find and schedule a good time to talk, which is usually after bedtime.
I know you wonder why I can’t just give my son to my husband at night, but the evenings are our busiest times that require all hands on deck in order for me to make dinner, feed Keo, clean up the mess, do bath-time, and our other nightly routines.
I have small, short pauses in my day in which texting allows me to communicate with you little-by-little over a longer period of time.
But at least I will be able to communicate!
If you decide to have kids, you will understand a little bit more about what I am talking about,and if you do, I promise I will be your number one fan and your biggest support system!
I will understand you and be able to relate with how fun and crazy those first years of motherhood are.
If you don’t call me back, I will understand because finally getting a moment to just sit, breathe, maybe drink warm (not cold or 3x re-heated) coffee, shamelessly watch your favorite show reality show, or finally be with your husband is gold.
This might not seem like it is true because we don’t speak as much as you or I would like, but becoming a mom has shown me what true love looks like and what matters in life, and you are at the top of that list.
One day things will normalize again, even though I secretly hope they don’t because that means my son will be grown up and wont need me anymore.
For now, this is my crazy, busy, always messy and definitely sleep-deprived season I am in, but like all seasons… it passes.
You were, still are, and will always be my best friend.
Your tired mama friend
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